I for one, will not want my ashes to be poured into the sea after cremation. Why not? Simply because it's more than just dumping the ashes into the sea...the chinese has this saying that when a man has 3 souls and 7 spirits, when he dies 1 of the souls lives in the ancestor tablet. It is therefore not advisable to pour ashes into the sea. Imagine your children poured your ashes into the sea...and it's eaten by the fishes, next the fishermen caught the fishes and sell it to the market, and your children bought the fishes home to eat.....won't they be eating you??
In Malaysia, there is a case of a young girl who passed on..and had her ashes poured into the sea. She appeared in her parents dream, drenched and cold, asking why her parents poured her ashes into the sea? The very next day, her parents find her a proper resting place in a columbarium.
I have recently found a beautiful resting place with excellent fengshui layouts. One day, it will be my final resting place where I can find peace. Furthermore, my descendants need not brave the rain and sun, they can visit me in a comfortable air-conditioned environment.
Please, do not hesitate to look me up @ 96603658, let me bring you down to the place that I mentioned above for a viewing session, experience it yourself, do what is necessary for yourself and your family members. It's no longer a taboo to talk about death, furthermore, prudent planning will put everyone at ease when that day arrive. No more quarreling about how, what, where about your final resting place. Take this small step to plan for your final resting place, and it will benefit everyone in the family.
